Hi all, I am wondering if you could offer as suggestions on how to research the following issue that I would like to read up on (both sides), or do you know a specific source that might be good? I am drawing a blank on best way to search for this. (Please no debates supporting either side, just techniques to search it would be appreciated!!)
Some believe that God gives us gifts to use, he decides, as they are gifts after all. We can pray for other gifts, which God may or may not provide at his discretion. But not having a gift only means God did not choose to offer it to us, nothing more.
Others believe that all gifts are open to us if we pray for them (I am thinking of spiritual gifts in this research, like the ones St. Paul articulates in 1 Cor), so if someone does not have a particular gift they desire (teaching, tongues, preaching, etc. etc.), it is in their control to pray for this and if they pray appropriately/genuinely/lovingly enough, God will grant their wish.
Thanks..